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Finding Love

Finding Love

Everyone wants to be loved. Even if they don’t admit it, it is human nature to want someone to care deeply for them, to support them, to protect them.

For many people-especially women-time gets increasingly short as they age. Whether it’s the ‘biological clock’ or just a sense of re-organizing life’s priorities, the older people get, the more they generally want to settle down.

Society today and within the last thirty years has shifted from a ‘get married-have babies-be a good housewife’ mentality to a career-oriented mindset with marriage happening later and children happening much later, if at all. The stigma of being an ‘old maid’ is gone but once a woman hits her thirties and has experienced career successes and personal fulfillment, many realize that their life is missing something. They are missing a significant other to share these things with.

Pain And Finding Love

Why have these women gone on so long without a partner to travel life’s ups and downs with? There are a myriad of reasons and all are valid. Broken hearts from the past, major life altering experiences like a death or adultery, and even self-centeredness all can contribute to why a woman hasn’t found love yet. Family history also plays a huge part, as a woman that grew up with abuse or divorce may be more apt to tread lightly where commitment is concerned.
What to do?

Even wildly successful women can suffer from low self-esteem where personal relationships are concerned. For many the business world is easy to conquer compared to dating and finding a mate. The rules are much less cut and dry with dating, and the pain can be great when rejected.

how to find love

Past hurts contribute to the biggest roadblocks to finding love and happiness though. A broken heart, a wound from an old flame, or just an unrequited love color a woman’s perception and can lead to negative thoughts and attitudes. It is so hard to get over a breakup, especially if you were really in love with the guy. It is a gut-wrenching, soul-breaking feeling to be rejected by the one you thought you would be growing old with. Understandably, this is something that is perfectly valid but needs to be dealt with or it will infest every other single thing that comes in the future.

Fixing Your Love Life

Simply saying ‘think positive’ is not enough. While a positive attitude is necessary in all facets of life, it is definitely easier said than done. It is a conscious choice to choose positive over negative and a person may have to make those choices a hundred times a day.

While mental shifts in attitude can be worked on your own, with maybe a great book or seminar, getting past the emotional cuts that have occurred in the past require some higher-level help. Enlisting the help of a credible, certified dating coach will provide invaluable help and resources to help you discover your best self, why you hang on to the negative aspects, and what you might unknowingly be doing to sabotage your current relationship.

A dating coach has dealt with many different people with many different situations and can bring a unique perspective and information to your personal situation. We invest in our futures with retirement funds, medical coverage, and gaining knowledge. Why not invest in your relationship future by obtaining the qualified help of a professional?

Did you find the helpful? Comments and questions are welcome. Thanks for reading,


Day Game Dating 4 Women

Day Game Dating 4 Women

Dating Coach at Day Game Dating 4 Women
We are Australia's popular dating coaching service for women. We work Australia wide through face-to-face sessions, phone/Skype sessions and live workshops.
Day Game Dating 4 Women

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I am writing this testimonial to validate the wonderful services offered by Colin. When he asked me if I would put something on paper I was more than eager as I feel that everybody can gain from coaching. You need a skilled coach with genuine empathy and compassion and this is where Colin comes in. I was nervous when I first began as I had never done this before and was worried it wouldn't work. Over time the more I went into my challenges the more insight I experienced and now I am at a place where i truly believe I can accomplish anything. It did work.  Much more than a dating coach, Colin is like a mentor, a true saving grace for somebody that was in desperate need of guidance. I hope that this testimonial helps you to make a positive decision towards changing your life.

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Colin has been more helpful to me than I can express in words. He is professional in his approach and has helped me to find the type of relationship that I’ve always wanted. I was originally referred to him by a female friend who also had a brilliant experience. I am now passing on the referral as to others so the can get the same results. I highly recommend this service to any woman looking for help.

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