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How To Find The Right Man

How To Find The Right Man

Want to know how to find the right man? Then you need to know what you're looking for…

I'll get straight to the point, you cannot hit a target that you cannot see and if you don't know what type of man you're looking for then how do you expect to find him?

When it comes to getting the things you want in life clarity is so important, and it's the same with finding a man. If you want to meet "Mr Right" then again… You need to know what he looks like – btw, I'm not just talking about his physical aspects (although this is important), I'm talking all areas which I'll mention shortly!

Write Down The Traits Of Your Perfect Man…

If you're not thinking on paper then you are not thinking at all. Writing something down literally programs it into the subconscious mind – no kidding. Many studies over many years have proven that writing something down, a goal, something that we desire helps us in making plans to achieve it.

Writing something down also forces us to have to think, and thinking is one of the skills lacking in most people. Ask yourself honestly, have you ever really sat down and then thought on paper about how to find the right man?

What To Write…

This is no time to hold back, negativity is a major downfall for some single people so don't let it effect this important task. Create a list of all the traits you desire in a man and ask yourself how they relate to him. Write down what you want in "Mr Right"

  • Hair color (does he have hair?)
  • Eye color
  • Height
  • Body type
  • Age
  • Nationality
  • Religion
  • Family values
  • Interests, hobbies
  • Career
  • History
  • Does he have kids, want etc?
  • Pets
  • Long-term goals
  • Personal development goals (if any)

I also want you to write down more behavioral specifics and ask questions such as,

  • What's he like with his family?
  • How will he treat you?
  • How will he treat his kids?
  • His mother in law etc…
  • Is he adventurous and open to trying new things?
  • Is he into wine?
  • Type of foods he likes
  • And any more ideals of the perfect man that you may have…

Some of the best dating advice on how to find the right man

In my coaching sessions with women we cover a vast range of areas to get this part of their lives sorted. (BTW it's the same in my dating coaching for men). One of the first things I ask my clients to do is to get very clear on what they want in a partner by performing this very exercise. You to must become clear on what you're looking for in a man!

Spend a bit of time on this, a few days to really refine the list. Over time your priorities will change and that's ok. Other traits will become more important and certain others less. This is your life and only you know what you really want but, you have to think and think on paper…

I hope you found this helpful and thanks for reading.


Day Game Dating 4 Women

Day Game Dating 4 Women

Dating Coach at Day Game Dating 4 Women
We are Australia's popular dating coaching service for women. We work Australia wide through face-to-face sessions, phone/Skype sessions and live workshops.
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