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How To Get a Boyfriend

How To Get a Boyfriend

How to get a boyfriend, that question so many women ask. Well asking this question may be the first mistake you’re making with men…

How can I become a more attractive person would be a better start than asking how to get a boyfriend. Our thinking, our self-talk, the questions we ask on a regular basis can have a profound effect on our behaviours, and our behaviours generate outcomes. This is cause and effect at its best!

How to Get a Boyfriend

Asking- “how do I get a boyfriend” puts you in a frame of neediness, and that a boyfriend will complete you. When we humans look for something too intently, too directly it has a funny way of avoiding us. Looking at men as potential boyfriends causes us to avoid you. We don’t like needy women anymore then you like needy men…

We Seek Value

What a man is after is value and if you ask yourself, “how can I be more attractive to men” and then work on the areas that matter… You are now coming from a new place, a powerful place that sets a value adding frame. You always want to be adding instead of taking, as this is what grabs us!

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It’s like other areas of life, money, business etc… You don’t ask “how can I get more money, more clients”, but rather you focus on adding value and enriching others, which indirectly causes the desired return. This has worked for me in my life and countless others that I know. It will work for you to!

Stop looking For a Man to Complete You

If Questions and self talk effect behaviour and behaviour will affect outcomes, then starting from a good place is important in helping you to get a boyfriend. Looking for a man to complete you won’t cut it! You need to come from a place of strength, of value, not from a place of weakness and neediness.

If you have recently come out of a relationship or have been single for a while then you need to listen to this advice. You need to get out there, meet people, men etc, but you must do so from the right mind set always remembering that adding value is key.

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If you are a regular reader of this Dating Blog and have found value in my articles, I would love to hear your feedback. If on the other hand you are still feeling stuck and need that extra personal attention, you can certainly take me up on one (or two) of my dating coaching offers.

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This is a great way to ensure a quick start with a strong finish. I work with women Australia wide and have 8 plus years experience and counting… You will be in good hands!

Thanks again for reading, feel free to leave a comment or ask a question. Most importantly, stay tuned for more dating articles.

Talk to you soon.

Day Game Dating 4 Women

Day Game Dating 4 Women

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We are Australia's popular dating coaching service for women. We work Australia wide through face-to-face sessions, phone/Skype sessions and live workshops.
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