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Preparing For The First Date

Preparing For The First Date

How To Prepare For A First Date

How exciting, it’s being a while since a man asked you out, you particularly like this one, and you want to know the best way to prepare for your date. Follow my advice and make it work!

First Impressions Count

Make a good first impression on himWe all know that first impressions count. He already likes you, but you don’t want to mess it up. You want to be super prepared and make as few mistakes as possible. Here is my pre-date check list to get you started. Good luck!

Safety First

Chances are high that he is a safe guy, but why take a risk? If you don’t know him well, do a bit of smart research. Google his name, look him up on Facebook, and try Googling his phone number. If anything is there, you will probably find it. Don’t miss out on this important first date step – ever!

Let Him Lead And Pick The Venue

We men like to lead so let us set up pick the venue. I’m not talking about dominant or controlling, more so leading. Secretly us men are rather insecure and like a good ego boost. If we pick a place that you like, we feel better about things. If you don’t like the place, pretend you do (if you like him that is). Let the man know that he is showing you a good time, It's important!

Look Your Best

This should be obvious but dress to impress. As mentioned, first impressions count and us men are very visual. Again, dress to impress, do your hair, makeup and wear a sexy outfit. Just to be clear, I’m not talking slutty, I’m talking classy. There is nothing sexier than a well-dressed woman with class. Trust me, I’m a man!

Offer To Meet Him At The Venue

Preparing For The First DateMeeting him at the venue is a great first date tip. It gives you the flexibility to leave early if it doesn’t work out. You can then go meetup with friends etc. You are also not stuck waiting for him to take you home – or worse, him showing up at your place (another time) because now he knows where you live. Although rare, these things can happen, so be cautious.

Don’t Forget To Have Fun

This is so easy to mess up. You are so nervous about things going well that you forget to enjoy yourself. You stiffen up and he feels bored. If you get very nervous before a first date, try some breathing exercises, talk to a friend, do whatever it takes to relax. A carefree relaxed attitude allows your naturally attractive self to shine through. By the way, this goes for men to, you must relax and have fun!

Preparing For The First Date

I hope you find my first date advice helpful. This is a small but important list to follow that should lead to good things. Thanks again for reading, your comments are welcome.

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Day Game Dating 4 Women

Day Game Dating 4 Women

Dating Coach at Day Game Dating 4 Women
We are Australia's popular dating coaching service for women. We work Australia wide through face-to-face sessions, phone/Skype sessions and live workshops.
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