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Should You Play Hard To Get

Should You Play Hard To Get

As a dating coach for women I continually get asked about the concept of playing hard to attract men. Read my advice on this popular technique…

I would begin by stating that you should be very cautious when playing hard to get. This tactic to attract men does work in certain circumstances but as usual with any technique used to seduce the opposite sex it very much depends on the context.

Playing Hard To Get Works On "Mr Player…"

Think about this. If a guy is a player (as in he dates lot's of women) and is very confident when it comes to this part of his life. Playing hard to get can work wonders as he is so used to getting what he wants that creating a challenge can trigger him into chasing you. He needs this challenge and you're giving it to him…

I want to meet a good man

Not So Much On The Man Next Door…

On the other hand if you meet a man that you like but he is not as confident as the so called "player." This type of man is looking for clear signals that you're interested. He needs a green light in order to pursue you and continued validation (at least in the early stages). Think about how playing hard to get can actually hurt you with this type of guy?

My Take On Playing Hard To Get…

If you want to know how to get a guy to ask you out and are contemplating using some techniques, I would suggest to first look closely at the type of guy you're interested in. Ask yourself – is he the type to have dated a lot of women and would he respond well to you being a challenge? If the answer is "yes" then go for it.

If he comes across as a nice guy and seems like he could do with a slight boost in confidence then avoid playing hard to get. It will only scare him off.

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I hope you found this article helpful and thanks for reading.

Day Game Dating 4 Women

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