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The Notion Of A Man Drought

The Notion Of A Man Drought

All The Good Men Are Taken

Again with the man drought. Is there a shortage of good men, are the good ones taken, and have you missed out? A huge concern for so many women…

It's The Fault Of The Media

The Man Drought TopicI have hit on this topic once before and I want to raise it again. Through my interactions with clients and single female friends, the subject of a man drought always comes up. Mainstream media is responsible for spreading this garbage around. It then quickly becomes the talk of the town, an excuse, a reason for women being single. The media loves it because it sells, who cares if it’s true or not, the concept of a man drought makes money. The women are the ones that suffer, you now feel like you’re fighting a losing battle, what is the point if all the good men are taken?

So Is There A Man Drought Or Not?

My direct answer is no! Please get this notion of a man drought out of your head.  Good men do tend to partner up, but when they come off the market, another one exists. How do I know? I know because I also coach single men. A lot of men that I talk to actually feel there may be a women drought and that all the good ones are taken, crazy I know, and the complete reverse. Again I tell them "this is not the case", because I meet amazing women everyday (women like you). Good men and women are everywhere; you just need to know how to find them.

So Why Is It So Hard?

With so many good single men and women out there, why the struggle? This is a good question. There can be many reasons as to why many women fail to find Mr Right, but it’s not due to a lack of good prospects, there are other factors at play. Women that feel challenged in attracting a good partner have other issues that may or may not be obvious. Some of these issues are serious, while others are not so bad. The thing is, whatever you have that holds you back from finding someone, it can be fixed! Nobody is ever destined to be single, man drought or not!

Always Single

The other day I wrote about the concept of women being chronically single. You can search it through the blog. To give you a brief list of reasons, singleness can be caused by several factors usually to do with fear and feelings of low-self-worth. The way you see (and feel) about yourself, and men, and relationships, has a huge affect on your experience. Your struggle on the outside to find a good man will generally be related to how you feel about yourself on the inside. Feeling challenged in this area quickly becomes a reality, and eventually out of control. As mentioned, this can be fixed and it all starts with you. Once you begin feeling better, you can add in some great dating strategies!

I hope this article helps and gives you some inspiration to keep working on this. Don’t ever get caught up in the notion of a man drought, it's not true and it never will be! You live in a country with plenty of opportunity.

Day Game Dating 4 Women

Day Game Dating 4 Women

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